Thresholds

Rites and milestones

Rites witness human thresholds. They do not own them.

What rites may mark

Welcome

Being received without being owned.

Naming

A chosen name held with dignity.

Coming of age

Responsibility without loss of conscience.

Partnership and kinship

Love and chosen care without ownership.

Return and recovery

Beginning again without forced purity.

Mourning and release

Grief, memory, and letting go with care.

Rite ethics

  • Consent is required.
  • Participation is voluntary.
  • No rite proves purity or worth.
  • No rite forces belief.
  • No rite forces forgiveness.
  • No rite replaces therapy, crisis support, legal care, or medical care.